Aged

You're getting older,

Your journey's been aged on your skin,

What seems so strong,

Has been & gone..

The story of my life. Keep everything at a distance.. Everyone.

DREAM for better days to come.

with an "S" on my chest, I'm a SUPERWOMAN

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true

p/s:  “Barangsiapa yang senantiasa beristighfar niscaya Allah akan menjadikan untuk setiap kesempitan jalan keluar & akan diberinya rizqi dari arah yang tidak disangka-sangka.”

(HR. Abu Dawud)

A Reminder To The Forgetful, A Help To The Wise.

Abd al-Malik said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to al-Harith ibn ‘Amr al-Kindi, she was made ready to be taken to the groom, then her mother Umamah came in to her, to advise her, and said: 

‘O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you possess these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise. 

‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them. 

‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion with whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you. 

‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you. 

‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah. 

‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume. 

‘The fifth and the sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry. 

‘The seventh and eighth of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management. 

‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you. 

‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment, whilst the latter will make him unhappy. 

‘Show him as much honor and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation. 

‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) choose what is best for you and protect you.’” 38 

She was taken to her husband, and the marriage was a great success; she gave birth to kings who ruled after him.

Dunya Is Nothing But Fleeting Moments

Take a break from dunya and repent to Allah subhanawata'ala

Prayer Protects Against Evils: "Recite that which has been revealed to you of the Book, and perform Salah. Verily, Salah prevents from lewdness and evils. And indeed, the remembrance of Allah (by you) is greatest. And Allah knows what you do." (Quran 29:45)

p/s: Nothing beats the feeling of khusyu' in salaat.

Note To Self.

Oh My Sister !!
I urge you to keep busy, not to give in to laziness and idleness. Rather, you should take care of your house and home library, and do your duties and your work, or pray, or read Qur’an or useful books, or listen to useful tapes, or sit with your neighbours and friends and talk to them about things that will bring them closer to Allâh. Then you will find happiness and joy, by Allâh’s Leave. And beware of giving in to idleness, for this will lead to worries, anxiety, devilish whispers and doubts that nothing can relieve except hard work.


You should take care of your appearance, wear perfume at home, keep your house tidy, and meet your husband, children, siblings, relatives and friends looking cheerful with a ready smile and an attitude of contentment.


Beware of sin for it leads to grief, especially the sins that are very common among women, such as forbidden glances, wanton adornment, being alone with a non-mahram man, cursing, slandering, backbiting, denying one’s husbands rights and not acknowledging his acts of kindness. These sins are very common among women, except for those on whom Allâh has mercy, so beware of incurring the wrath of Allâh and fear Him, for fear of Allâh is what brings happiness and a clear conscience.




p/s: Despite the fact that subh is getting earlier as summer approaches, usaha-usaha kan lah jugak untuk jadi wanita subuh. ^_^

A Strong Woman

Optimism 101 #2

"Work on the things that can be worked on."

(for the rest, let's just leave them aside..for now at least.)

With bismillah.. let's hit the start button!

Optimism 101 #1

"She doesn't like to look at the cracks in the wall, she's too busy fillin'em."

Mahabbah, Khauf wa Roja'.

“ Seorang ikhwan baik-baik akan menawarkan dirinya secara baik-baik pula. Tidak akan melakukan hal-hal yang sekiranya dapat melukai hati seorang akhwat dan mendatangkan murka ALLAH. Bukan dengan cara-cara yang tercela dan dilarang oleh syaria’t Islam yang mulia. Karena ikhwan baik-baik, tau bagaimana harus memperlakukan seorang akhwat.

Dan ikhwan yang baik-baik akan sangat berhati-hati dalam membawa hati serta memikat hati, karena ketakutannya dengan murka ALLAH. Dan ALLAH memuji orang-orang yang takut di dalam kitab-Nya dan menyanjung mereka.

Sesungguhnya ikhwan baik-baik yang menjaga Alloh dalam setiap hembusan nafasnya, akan memiliki tiga pilar sentral, yaitu Mahabbah (Cinta), Khauf (Takut) dan Roja’ (Harap) didalam hatinya.

Mereka tidak mengedepankan hawa nafsu dan syetan. Mereka memiliki visi dan misi untuk selalu memperoleh ridho Alloh Ta’ala, dengan mencari kebenaran yang tak henti-hentinya dan senantiasa ada taubat disetiap hembusan nafasnya.

Dia (mungkin) tidak pernah mengikuti pesantren atau sekolah Islam lainnya, tapi memiliki keinginan untuk senantiasa bertaubat dan memperbaiki diri dengan menundukkan akalnya kepada Kitabullah, Sunnah Rasulullah.

Jika engkau menginginkan ikhwan baik-baik untuk mengkhitbahmu, harus menjadi instropeksi diri adalah “apakah diri ini sudah menjadi akhwat baik-baik?

Ketika cinta memanggil

Manis sungguh rasa bila berwudhu, tambahan pula di musim panas ni. Terasa sangat dingin, hilang lelah kelas 6 jam berturutan.

p/s: ada kawan pernah pesan, kalu lillah insyaAllah tak lelah :)

What drives YOU?

Somebody asked, "What drives you?"

I said, "The fear of falling is greater than the fear of height itself."

Then she said "What's it like the view from up there?"

I have to say, "Not bad, not bad at all"

Find what drives you. Devote yourself to an idea, struggle on it. Go make it happen!

Selamat bermujahadah! 

Hidup ini ada apa?

Tadi kat kelas lepas selesai presentation dan tiba masa kena bergerak ke kelas untuk tutorial pulak, sebelum kami bergerak ada seorang kawan bertongkat dagu sambil roll her eyes &cakap, "Urgh..hidup.."

Ili senyum je balik dekat dia..

Malam semalam sebelum tidur Ili tanye roomate ili, can you define life in 3 words?

Then she said, "It goes on."

Yeah, it goes on..

Sampailah our time is up. That on that day whether you are ready or not, you still have to leave. You still have to say goodbye or maybe tak sempat pun nak cakap apa-apa pun.

Ya Rabbi kuatkan kami, beri pada kami kesudahan yang baik.

Allah humma hasibni hisaban yasira
Ya Allah hisablah diri ini dengan seringan-ringan penghisaban


I know the road is long make me strong

Group Ili 5th Semester =)